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ABOUT ME +
MY APPROACH

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I'm Carly, a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) with BCACC. I have been working in the field of trauma since 2012, initially without realizing. Working for organizations and programs addressing mental health, homelessness, the justice system, education gaps, and physical health, I began to notice a common thread: that trauma and negative life experiences have lasting effects on mental health, relationships, family, parenting, housing, education, work, self-esteem, and overall wellness.

 

As a counsellor, I work from an attachment lens, which means that I consider how early experiences of care, neglect, love, and abuse influence our current lives, wellness, and relationships. I also use an embodied approach, which means I often explore body sensations and experiences along with memories, deeply held beliefs, emotions, and thoughts. I work with people to change, heal, and release "old stuff" that's getting activated in your current life, instead of just teaching skills to deal with but not heal these challenges.

 

I strive to be mindful of where you're at, what you are comfortable with and needing, and collaborate with you through the process. I balance warmth and care with honesty and genuineness and truly enjoy my work as a counsellor and psychotherapist. I will keep us both accountable to the goals we have set and progress towards the life you want.

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AREAS OF WORK

I have experience and interest in working with a number of challenges and diagnoses, including mental health, self-esteem, family conflict, and trauma. My approach often involves exploring how your past experiences influence your current functioning and wellness. I have experience and training working with individuals who are experiencing challenges related to:

TRAUMA + NEGATIVE LIFE EXPERIENCES

Including:

  • emotional, physical, and sexual abuse

  • sexualized violence

  • family conflict

  • accident or injury

  • bullying

  • pregnancy, miscarriage, and birth challenges

  • loss and grief

  • any experience that affected your sense of self-worth

INTERPERSONAL + FAMILY CHALLENGES

Including:

  • abuse or neglect

  • family conflict and violence

  • invalidated feelings and needs

  • relationship violence, gaslighting, and abuse

  • intergenerational trauma

  • estrangement

  • parenting and caregiving challenges

MENTAL HEALTH + TEMPERMENT CHALLENGES

Including:

  • anxiety

  • depression and low mood

  • borderline personality traits

  • dissociation

  • phobias and other fears

  • highly sensitive people

If you don't see your challenge listed here, please note that these are only some of the forms that trauma, mental health, self-esteem, interpersonal, and life challenges can take. If your situation, feelings, symptoms, experience, or history is challenging for you, then it is legitimate and you deserve support.

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EDUCATION + TRAINING

I have experience and training in a number of evidence-based therapy modalities, including:

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

  • Accelerated Experiential Dynamic Psychotherapy (AEDP)

  • Emotion-Focused Therapy (EFT)

  • Emotion Focused Family Therapy (EFFT)

  • Dialectical Behavioural Therapy (DBT)

  • Mindfulness-Based approaches and practices

 

I have my Master's in Family Relations and Human Development - an interdisciplinary degree in psychotherapy, research, and social services - from the University of Guelph, Ontario. I also have  a Bachelor's in Psychology from the University of Toronto, where I also studied Buddhism Psychology and Mental Health, and Sexual Diversity Studies.

I would be pleased to connect for a complimentary consultation to see if we would be a good fit.

A designation of BC Association of Clinical Counsellors

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